Researching the plight of the children in Africa is heart breaking and eye opening. First, it is near impossible to estimate the number of children who are orphaned from the AIDS epidemic, poverty and war. Statistics will tell you there are 147 million orphans around the world and perhaps 12 million in Africa alone. These statistics are hard to trace as many of these vulnerable children are not lucky enough to be in traditional orphanages, they are left to care for themselves on the streets or worse, are exploited.
We started our research by trying to narrow our search for countries who
- had the need (they all have the need!)
- whose family criteria me met
- whose time frame criteria we could meet in country
Our first question was how were we going to afford an international adoption. An international adoption will cost approximately $20,000-$25,000. We do believe that God has Graced us with the desire to pursue adoption and we believe that He will show us the way to provide the needed funds through fundraising. We have no doubts about this.
The very next question we needed to answer was which country should we adopt from and, again, this was an easy one. We are looking to adopt a boy between the ages of 3-4. We have a family with 3 children and for some countries this was one child too many so we were tasked with finding a country who didn't think we already had too many! It was a natural choice for us. Uganda also has a relative short time in country when picking up your child. We also looked at length of stay in country, and how many trips were required. So Uganda...here we come.
One thing we LOVE about the adoption process in Uganda is that they allow for independent adoptions; rather guardianship's. This means that we do not have to register with an adoption agency. This appealed to us because we have adopted independently before here in the US. We feel this process allows for God to lead and for His timing to be perfected rather than for an agency to tell us when our number has come up and has 'matched' us with the next child in line. Yes, it will be more work for and will be harder but we have witnessed the miracle performed for us with our son's adoption and those close to us who know his story can attest to the millions on tiny miracles that had to line up perfectly for him to come home with us and that could only have happened with the help of God and so we trust that He will help us again, this time around.